Encouraging kids to appreciate the everyday, rather than just the presents and treats to come, is a lovely way to help them feel grounded. And let’s be honest, we could all use a reminder to slow down and enjoy the small things at this time of year.

So, how can we help our kids start thinking about gratitude in a way that’s fun and simple? Here are some easy, practical ideas that your family can enjoy in the lead-up to Christmas.



Create a Gratitude Jar

A gratitude jar is a lovely, hands-on way to get kids thinking about what they’re thankful for. Set up a jar in your home, and encourage your little one to write (or draw) something they appreciate each day. It could be anything from their favourite toy to a sunny afternoon. At the end of the month, you can sit down as a family and read them out together, reminding everyone of the small joys they’ve had. It’s a sweet way to encourage positivity and reflection, without it feeling like a chore.

How to make it fun: Let your child decorate the jar with stickers, glitter, or paint to make it personal!



Write Letters of Thanks

A simple thank-you letter can go a long way in teaching gratitude. Encourage your child to write a short note or draw a picture for someone who has been kind to them – a grandparent, teacher, or even a neighbour. It’s a wonderful way to help them think about the people in their lives who make them feel loved and appreciated. Plus, who doesn’t love receiving a heartfelt message?

Tip: If they’re too young to write, help them tell you their thoughts, or even record a video message instead!



Start a Family Gratitude Tradition

Why not start a little family tradition in November? For example, during dinner, each person could share something they’re thankful for that day. It’s a simple habit that helps everyone focus on the positives, and it’s something you can carry on as the month progresses. This is especially meaningful as we move into December, when material gifts can often overshadow the things that matter most.

Variation: Try a "Gratitude Tree" by cutting out leaf shapes from paper. Every day, write something you’re grateful for on a leaf and hang it on the tree, watching it grow as the month goes on.



Practice Giving

Gratitude isn’t just about saying “thank you”—it’s also about recognising when we have enough and giving to those who might not. At POD, we’ve been getting involved with Operation Christmas Child project from Samaritan’s Purse, where children can help put together shoeboxes filled with toys, school supplies, and hygiene items for children in need. It’s a fantastic way for our little ones to learn about giving back and helping those who may have less.

Teaching kids to give to others, whether it’s donating toys they’ve outgrown, helping with a local food bank, or baking biscuits for a neighbour, helps them understand that kindness and gratitude go hand in hand.

Make it engaging: Let them choose what to donate or how to help. The more involved they are, the more meaningful it becomes.

It’s All About Balance

While we’re focusing on gratitude, let’s not forget that kids are still kids. With all the excitement and magic of Christmas, it’s normal for them to get caught up in the “gimme” moments – and that’s okay! Practising gratitude now is just about planting a seed. By encouraging small acts of thankfulness, we help them grow into more mindful and appreciative little humans, while still letting them enjoy the magic of childhood.